Why It Might Be Time to Redefine Marriage
Maybe the one-size-fits-all model has become obsolete.
Please listen to the podcast prior to reading the entry below.
Ok first I need to say that I have been working on this post for far too long lol and so it has constantly been changing. HA. As I think about it more and more and do a bit of research other points come into play.
After listening to the above podcast I of course felt the urge to write a blog. The title alone drew me in. I wondered what earth could they could be thinking? I am, I like to think, a very open-minded person in the sense that I do believe that there are many ways to skin a cat – as the saying goes. They are so many of us in the world and therefore we are all going to have different views, opinions and different ways of carrying out the same task. When I read the title I was intrigued to hear what they were offering and also I thought the same thing myself in the sense that the world is changing at such a rapid rate there is no stopping it. Roles have changed drastically over the past couple of years. The roles of women in the household and work force have gone from women being submissive housewives to now independent world leaders!! So yes, maybe it is time to redefine marriage.
I found the podcast to be very interesting. While I personally don’t necessarily agree with all the various forms they offer, I can certainly understand why and how they came about. They are very clear definitions and make sense, based on their definitions. I understand why these women decided to offer other definitions of marriage because I too know the constant pressure society puts on us women about marriage and It’s not fair. People need to realise that marriage is NOT for everyone and that it’s OK not to get married. Your relationship is your own business. Right now the pressure I’m currently getting from everyone is “when are you having kids” “it’s time to have kids” “work on the babies” hell people have even placed 2 bets on us on when we are having kids. ! Lol. In the beginning it is all fun and games with our friends and those are ok, but, all jokes aside, when I constantly get bombarded with the baby talk ( after not even being married for 6 months yet ) it gets really old and becomes really rude… especially from people we just met or barely know! That one bugs me the most!